Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Interesting article on healthcare

TIME

Monday, Aug. 17, 2009

The Fatal Flaw of Obamacare
By Ramesh Ponnuru

There are two basic points about health-care reform that President Obama wants to convey. The first is that, as he put it in an ABC special in June, "the status quo is untenable." Our health-care system is rife with "skewed incentives." It gives us "a whole bunch of care" that "may not be making us healthier." It generates too many specialists and not enough primary-care physicians. It is "bankrupting families," "bankrupting businesses" and "bankrupting our government at the state and federal level. So we know things are going to have to change."
Obama's second major point is that--to quote from the same broadcast--"if you are happy with your plan and you are happy with your doctor, then we don't want you to have to change ... So what we're saying is, If you are happy with your plan and your doctor, you stick with it."So the system is an unsustainable disaster, but you can keep your piece of it if you want. And the Democrats wonder why selling health-care reform to the public has been so hard?

Again and again, their effort has brought us into a land of paradoxes. Public skepticism is warranted when the President promises to cut costs while simultaneously providing coverage to nearly 50 million uninsured people. It is even more warranted when his congressional allies seek to raise taxes to pay for all the new spending that this cost-cutting entails. We aren't talking about short-term spending either; this isn't a trillion-dollar investment in a new system that will ultimately save money. The Congressional Budget Office says the leading health-care-reform proposals will increase health-care spending and make the budget harder to balance in the long run. Yet saving money is the President's principal stated rationale for reform.

Health-care reformers send out mixed messages on the uninsured as well. The moral imperative of improving their health care is what drives the passion of most liberal activists for reform. But when you read the liberal policy analysts, it quickly becomes clear that getting young and healthy people to pay more in premiums than they will spend on medical expenses is the point of forcing them to buy insurance. Which is it? In aggregate, are we trying to rescue the uninsured or bilk them? Is reform something we are doing for them or to them?

The reformers' speed belies their words as well. If health-care reform is so critically important, as they keep insisting, why not take the time to get it right? Hard as it is to believe, at one point Obama was urging the House and Senate to pass legislation by three weeks after they began debating it.One final contradiction may lie beneath all the others. Democrats, particularly those involved in health policy, were scarred by President Clinton's failure to achieve reform in 1994. They are determined to avoid a similar debacle. So on every procedural question, they have done the reverse of what he did.

Everything is different this time--everything, that is, except the plan. The Democrats are seeking mostly the same policies they sought 15 years ago: mandates, regulations on insurance companies, new government-managed markets. The major difference is that this time they also want a "public option," an insurance program open to everyone and run by the government. Obamacare is Clintoncare with a little more liberalism.The Democrats have apparently concluded that it was tactical blunders that sank Clinton. It wasn't. It was his plan. Like today's plans, it had too many conflicting goals.

Stanley Greenberg, who was polling for Clinton back then, recently reminded Democrats that the insured public in the early '90s just could not be persuaded that the President was going to cut its costs by expanding coverage for others. No amount of clever strategizing is going to make the sales job easier this time. Instead, the President is in a series of double binds. The more he emphasizes how much has to change, for example, the more people are going to doubt his pledge that they can keep their doctor.

From an email I sent yesterday, 8/12/09 Wed 152pm PDT: "AAAA's cousin, the one in the picture, told me that a nurse in New York who had worked in the UK said that if you are 60, you no longer qualify for kidney dialysis and that CTs and MRIs are strictly rationed under socialized medicine in the UK. I have not verified that information by logging on to the UK's national health service website, so I'm not sure if the information is correct. However, I'm glad AAAA is not in the UK. She has had 10 CTs and three operations requiring general anesthesia, each performed by a Professor of Neurosurgery, and AAAA is 60. She may not have qualified for any intervention in the UK."

I found this today: "Hospitals across London are warning that unless more dialysis units are opened urgently to treat kidney patients, the system could face collapse."http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/england/2205001.stm

AAAA was careful about her diet and weighs 99 pounds (her BMI is 18.7, which is normal). She is not hypertensive, has a normal lipid profile, never smoked, does not drink alcohol (not even red wine, which is good for you in moderation), does not even drink coffee (which is good for you). She did not take drugs (not even marijuana). She exercised and told her patients to diet and exercise. So she fulfilled the requirements of preventive health that is mandated by socialized medicine. One might argue that she should have avoided stress by not marrying me.

Congress may yet pass the health legislation Obama wants. If it does, that success will reflect the Democrats' numbers in Congress and their determination, not public enthusiasm. This time there is no barrage of Harry and Louise ads to blame. It is health-care reform's own contradictions that are causing it to sink.

http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1914973,00.html
Copyright © 2009 Time Inc. All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or in part without permission is prohibited.

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Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Letting go

Today, with God's loving grace, I went through boxes of infant clothes. I am dealing with 'secondary infertility' meaning that I have had one child (thank you Jesus!) but now I am unable to have another. God is faithful and I know that if it is in His plan for me to have more children then I will. But the human part of me cannot seem to let go of my dream of having 5 or 6 kiddos running around making me crazy... and happy!

I intentionally wanted to get rid of as much as I could so that I could 'let-go' of the desire to have another baby. I feel called to 'let-go' because I was just thinking about it all the time. I am learning to deal with secondary infertility and for me, giving away four bags of baby clothes was just the thing I needed to do in order to really step forward in faith.

I am excited to know that instead of the clothes sitting in the garage, now they will go to someone who needs them. My next step is to go through the larger items and decide what can be donated or sold and what should be kept. I hate to hold onto anything because it feels like I am not fully letting go but I know that if I were to become pregnant in the next three years we wouldn't be able to re-buy the larger items.

For now I rest in Christ. I know that His plan is the plan I desire. For all those who are dealing with fertility issues, my prayers go out to you. You will be in my heart in a special way this week.

Proverbs 3:5
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Kid altar questions

I put together a 'kid' friendly altar for my Liv. So far I used a t.v. tray, covered it with blue cloth, put a Crucifix and statue of Mary on it and now I want to do something to personalize it for Liv. I want her touch to be on it so she feels like it is hers. Then the goal is to say a morning prayer and an evening prayer in front of it. We always remember night prayers but rarely remember morning prayers... and what better way to start the morning then with prayer.

So does anyone have any suggestions? Maybe a good craft? Does anyone else do this?

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Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Martha Martha



Part II of my rather long delay at the airport led me to another article of interest. This one about Martha. For all the times I have read Luke 10:41-42 I never really saw it in the light I did at the airport in Tennessee. I felt like reading Jesus' words to Martha could be directly spoken to me. He says,

"Martha, Martha you are anxious and worried about many things. There is need of only one thing. Mary has chosen the better part and it will not be taken from her". Luke 10:41-42

Now Martha is someone I can relate to. She is hardworking, focused, and manages an entire household. All the while she is completely missing the mark. And Martha had Jesus right in front of her and she was still missing the mark! It is just amazing to me to think of Jesus saying, 'You (Martha) are anxious and worried'. First of all, how did He know? Was her face worried? Was she scurrying about trying to get things done? Maybe biting her nails?

I know that mindset; anxious, scurrying about in order to get things done. And I can almost hear Jesus specifically talking to me. What is important is the next line. Jesus says to look to Mary. To look at what she has embraced and see that her peace will always be with her because she has chosen the Lord. And truthfully, I am sure Martha thought she was doing well, doing the right thing. But she was so busy getting things done that she forgot to turn her heart over to the Lord. Fortunately for her she had the actual Lord to let her know what she was doing wrong!

Lord, help us to put the things of non importance aside and always keep our hearts open to You. Help us to embrace Martha's servitude and Mary's heart.

Monday, August 24, 2009

Holiness through laundry



While enjoying my two hour plane delay on the way to Florida I read an interesting article in the St. Anthony Messenger. It was an article about St. Hunna who is known solely as the 'Holy Washer Woman'. What?! The story says that St. Hunna was of a higher social standing and washed the clothes of the poor. I guess I could consider my life and St. Hunna's life as one in the same... pre-canonization of course. I often feel that I should be getting mani-pedi's but instead I am resigned to washing juice stained shirts. I envision a personal masseuse but instead I am attempting to match socks that may never have even had a mate in the first place.


But there is something heart warming about knowing that our beautiful Church recognizes the holiness of a woman who is only known for washing clothes. What love she must have shared with the community with every shirt and pant she washed. And even more amazing is knowing that sanctity can be obtained through such a mundane task. This in itself is a moms dream as this information lets us know that all our efforts with laundry, dishes, etc. will not be unnoticed. We can be saints through our washing machine. The secret is doing so with love in our hearts; knowing that all things can be done for the greater glory of God.


Of course, this is the part that I forget: to 'wash in love'. Maybe it's time to put a picture of Jesus next to the washing machine. Then I can keep my eyes on Christ no matter what may be doing.


Saturday, August 15, 2009

Year of the Priest and our little ones

A good friend gave me this site.....

Great ways to incorporate The Year of Priests and activities for our little ones!




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Thursday, August 13, 2009

Mass and Kids

Check out this great article about kids and Mass found at Catholic Exchange!



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Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Catholic Child.com

Found a great Internet resource: Catholic Child.com
Check it out!
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Great Catholic Book Giveaway

Check out this great giveaway from Frugal Catholic Mom! Frugal Catholic Mom is giving away three Catholic books from Emmaus Road Publishing:

1. Courageous Virtue
2. Courageous Love
3. The Unchanging Heart of the Priesthood

Enter here!

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Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Catholicism in our homes

A few months back I wanted to find out how you amazing moms incorporate Catholicism into your daily lives. I got a great response and wanted to share it here. Bringing Catholicism to the front lines of the family isn't always easy amidst sports events, school requirements, and basic life. But regardless we all know how crucial it is to immerse our kiddos in the faith, now. Check out these great ideas from other moms just like you and implement them into your own lives!

If you would like to contribute any additional ways just blog me and I will post those as well! Thanks!

Sharon from ‘The Birds Nest’ shares:

- Our main way of spreading the Catholic tradition to our kids is in our everyday life.
- In our home we have a crucifix hung in each room.
- They have Catholic children's books. They have a kids' rosary. They see us pray the rosary. - We pray grace before each meal, and attend Mass together (usually ;).
- I am taking my boys to Living Stations for the 1st time.
- My oldest will also be attending out parish school in the fall.I like that because he will gain more friends of the same faith.
- That's probably my biggest thing: surrounding them with other Catholics. Not that it's the ONLY type of people we interact with. But we do have some good Catholic friends in the area, and it's good for our boys to see other kids doing the same thing.

NP from "Coffee Stained Mama" shares:

- We're expecting our first in August, and I've already been thinking about how to share our faith with him. I've been looking online and in Catholic catalogs for good Catholic toys and things, he'll have a Crucifix in his nursery (along with a statue of the Holy Family).
- I think, at least at first, it'll be us living our faith. My husband and I pray together before bed every night, so when Wyatt comes along, we'll make sure he's there, as well, from the very beginning. We attend Mass on the weekends (always together), so when Wyatt is born, he'll be there, too.
- As he gets older, we'll have other ways of incorporating our faith into his life (praying the Rosary as a family, studying Scripture and saints together, etc.), but for now, I think the strongest testimony of our faith will be walking the walk.

Ellen from
Thrifty and Chic Mom shares:

- I love the kids CD I have by 'The Rennas' it is Catholic music and we often start the day with the song "Good morning Jesus",
- We color religious pages I print out such as saints.
- Another thing is family bedtime prayers.
- These are just a few simple ones but that book you got is full of great suggestions that I use too.

Andrea from "Momma In Flip Flops 2" shares:

- A lot comes from my FAMILIA which is awesome. I have a 3.5 and a 1.5 year old and a baby on the way.A Few Things We Do! -Prayers before bedtime. 3.5 y/o Hail Mary, Our Father and Glory Be with intentions. He knows all three now. 1.5 y/o just a simple Sign of the Cross and Thank you Jesus! She's close to knowing her Sign of the Cross.-Catholic Saints Videos (excellent for 3.5 y/o)
- Prayer before Meals Always.
-A great Children's Rosary DVD (I can get you the exact name) both kids LOVE it.
-Simple prayer books, just bought a Find the Saints Book. More Catholic books in the home the better.
-Rosaries to play with.
-Saying a prayer with them when hearing an ambulance or for daddy at work, various times throughout the day.
-Children's Adoration once a month.
-Coloring books!

I shared:

- I just bought 'The Big Book of Catholic Customs and Traditions'. (Review to come soon!) This book provides different activities for teachers or moms to do with their kiddos.
- We do a Rosary playgroup on Fridays. My little one gets to have a playdate and I get to pray the rosary with my girlfriends. The kids definitely get loud during the rosary but I am sure Mother Mary is smiling down on us.
- Holy Baby DVD's! Love them! (Another Holy Baby DVD giveaway to come soon!) They are Catholic DVD's that provide music, mass parts and so much more for your child.




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Monday, July 27, 2009

Family Friendly Reality Show... hmmmm

Here is a family friendly REALITY SHOW. Did I just put those words in the same sentence? Yes! Read on:

CatholicTV launches reality series about Catholic familiesWASHINGTON (CNS) --

CatholicTV, a television ministry of the Boston Archdiocese, is venturing into the realm of reality programming. In September, the network will launch its new series, "House+Home." Hosted by Father Robert Reed, director of CatholicTV, the show profiles Catholic families. Each episode of the show features a different family and offers a glimpse into their everyday life. The families share with Father Reed their personal stories and their expressions of faith. Although the series is slated to begin in September, CatholicTV aired the pilot episode of "House+Home" June 1. The episode featured the Massachusetts family of Michael and Laura Richard. The Richards have four children, including a set of triplets.

In a July 1 interview with Catholic News Service, Laura Richard said her family was asked to appear in the show by Father Reed, who periodically celebrates Mass at St. Bonaventure Parish in Manomet, Mass., where the Richards' oldest daughter is an altar server. Richard said there was a "very long list of reasons" why her family agreed to be featured in the show's pilot. "We really loved the idea of the show, the idea that it showed Catholic families," she stated.

Taken from Catholic News Service


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Sunday, July 26, 2009

Fulton Sheen



My mom asked for some DVD's by Fulton Sheen for Mothers Day this past year. With that I was introduced to the amazing world of Bishop Sheen. First spoken in 1953 through a radio show now his words are written in many books. One of those books is 'Life is Worth Living'.

I have been reading it for a few days now and I really love it.


Some of the awesome quotes from the book:


" The most bored people in life are not the underprivileged but the overprivileged." Hmmmm.


"Man wants three things; life, knowledge and love".


"When are we most happy? When we do that for which we are made.... then there is thrill and romance to life" What is it that you were made to do? Does it make you happy?


"By meditating on how God humbled Himself to become a man and then died to save us, we become like little children in the spiritual sense, and the world becomes so big, so romantic, so full of mystery."


"When a child is given to his parents, a crown is made for that child in Heaven, and woe to the parents who raise a child without consciousness of that eternal crown!" Wow.... that is such an amazing statement!


In regard to Communism "The revolution must begin in man before it begins in society".


I just love the Bishops keen sense of humor and the agelessness of his comments. He captures the heart of man and explains how to grow closer to God through our humanness. He recognizes human weakness and shares how we are made strong in the Lord. He calls a spade a spade and doesn't dance around fact or fiction. He is aware of the rules of Mother Church and calls each one of us to respond with open hearts and arms.


More to come!
Bishop Sheen, pray for us!

Friday, July 24, 2009

Something to think about


I got this from http://mommaf8.stblogs.com/. Definitely makes you think. Definitely makes me sad. Pray!!

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Tuesday, July 14, 2009

'Spirit and Life' Book Review


I had the opportunity to review 'Spirit and Life' by Scott Hahn through the Catholic Company Review program.

“Spirit and Life” by Scott Hahn is a reader friendly book that will help any reader to interpret Scripture. We all know Scott Hahn is an amazing theologian and author. With that being said, “Spirit and Life” is yet another book that allows the layperson to enter into the next level of his or her spirituality through reading Scripture.

In the opening chapter Hahn writes about the Word of God as a symphony. Originally coined by Cardinal Ratzinger, now our Pope, the imagery sets the tone for the chapters ahead. The following chapters provide insight to Scriptures relationship with Tradition, the Mass, Jesus as a person, Mother Church, the end times, and the Gospel of Matthew.

Throughout nine different chapters set up as essays Hahn expands on the relationship Scripture has with all aspects of the Catholic faith. Hahn truly brings Scripture to life by highlighting that Christ IS the LIVING WORD! We are fully encountering Christ when we read Scripture.
“Spirit and Life” is a book that should be read over time so that the reader is able to truly enter into the depth that Hahn intends. One of the ways I like to read books of this nature is by picking one chapter that is speaking to my heart. What is nice about "Spirit and Life" is that you do not have to necessarily read the chapters in order. You can read a chapter that is speaking to your heart and stop there.

In true Hahn form, "Spirit and Life" will be a spiritual books that draws you deeper into a relationship with Christ. Check it out here.


Thursday, July 9, 2009

End of life issues

I was talking with a certain doctor I know about my dads death in 2007. He died of lung cancer and is greatly missed. While on his death bed he received sugar water and pain medications. Unfortunately our physician, who attends our church offered us the option to decrease his food and water to nothing in order to expedite his death because his quality of life was so poor.

We were appalled. Besides the fact that we were dealing with a hard death, now we had to fight for our dying father to receive basic food and water. What a learning experience this situation was for all of us. Hospice was also pushing for us to decrease and end the food and water. It was such an interesting conflict. I could almost hear them in the hallway saying, 'How sad. Why won't this family just let him go? It is selfish.'

How far from the Truth!

As Catholics we place the utmost value of human life in all forms. From the earliest moment of conception to the last breath of the dying we know that we are made in the image and likeness of God. This alone warrants that human life be treated well. What our world has done through abortion and euthanasia is a direct offense against the beauty of our Father in Heaven. As listed below the Catechism of the Catholic Church plainly specifies that any form of euthanasia is undeniably wrong and not acceptable.

So where is the line? The line lies here.

All human beings, regardless of their state of life, deserve the following:

Food
Water
Pain control

So my doctor that I am talking to talks about the patients right to decide. Example, an elderly patient with advanced lung cancer, in his last days... if he and his family decide its okay to remove the food and water element of his care, is that acceptable? And when do we cross the line from food and water to 'pulling the plug'?

D0es the physician have a duty to the patient? And their needs and wants?

The duty is to God and then the patient. All life is to be treated respectfully. All human life is required to receive basic life sustaining treatment including food, water and pain medication.

What are your thoughts??



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Check
here to read what the Vatican wrote regarding Euthanasia.

Catechism of the Catholic Church:

2324 Intentional euthanasia, whatever its forms or motives, is murder. It is gravely contrary to the dignity of the human person and to the respect due to the living God, his Creator.

2277 Whatever its motives and means, direct euthanasia consists in putting an end to the lives of handicapped, sick, or dying persons. It is morally unacceptable.

Thus an act or omission which, of itself or by intention, causes death in order to eliminate suffering constitutes a murder gravely contrary to the dignity of the human person and to the respect due to the living God, his Creator. The error of judgment into which one can fall in good faith does not change the nature of this murderous act, which must always be forbidden and excluded.

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